July 14, 2017
Hello every one. The bicycle trip across Tennessee to promote Melanoma cancer awareness was a success! We had a lot of positive feed back, and learned that there are a lot of people suffering a lot worse than I am. The stories I heard were encouraging yet some were really sad. We even had cars and trucks stopping saying thank you and honking their horns giving us encouragement. It makes me more determined than ever to start a non-profit organization to help people with cancer pay their every day bills.
There is a common theme about every story I heard: I first got cancer, was devastated mentally, then came the treatments which drained me physically, then the bills start coming in. Not just the doctor bills, but the every day bills; electric bill, money for gas to go to the doctor, losing your job because you can’t do what you used to do before the cancer. Then the depression sets in or you start feeling sorry for yourself. Then you start loosing your car, your dogs and cats, your mobility, your house and you sink further into depression. Then you withdraw from friends and family, think about suicide, or even commit suicide.
Tina and I think we can help people with this problem. If you have anyone that has cancer, please have them contact me, or you contact me, and I will contact them. In the meantime, help me get this organization started. We can all help somebody, we just have to step forward and do it!
We will be having fund raisers before long. Just to get the non-profit registered with the federal government and Tennessee, is going to take around $1000.
Please help us help others. Help a buddy fight cancer!!
May 15, 2017
Biking Across Tennessee!
December 17, 2016
October 1, 2016
especially melanoma research and Bristol-Myers Squib, that I walked the whole 3.5 miles. How about that! There were a lot of walkers/runners, and I made some new friends. The main thing is there was a lot of money raised to fight this deadly disease that takes a life every hour of every day. This month I turn 61 and I am more determined to make this Melanoma ride across the state of Tennessee in May 2017 a success.
September 19, 2016
Well everyone it is Sept. 19th already and this year is really going fast. I am in my third round of fighting melanoma. I had surgery on September 9th, and thought all was well until I looked at the surgery site on my right knee. It was puffy, swollen and very painful to walk. Tina took me to Vanderbilt emergency room. There I found out I had an infection . They sent me home after 6 hours with a script for antibiotics.
I went back to see my surgeon at Vanderbilt today. She said it looked really good and for me to keep it propped up as much as I could for the next week. With GOD’s help I will be ready to walk in the Melanoma awareness walk in Nashville on October 1st.
Continue to keep Tina and I in your prayers. We know that GOD has this and we are ready with him to fight this disease. Never give up!!
Love you all,
September 5, 2016
August 24, 2016
Well we are in the fight again!! The cancer is back.
Since my last update, I have found out I have cancer on the top of my right knee. I went for a PET scan on August 18th and it was confirmed in my fight knee. That is the only place it is right now. It is discouraging to find out after doing so well, that this disease has struck again. They say that the third time is the charm. I pray it so!
There have been bad and good days. Life is what YOU make of it, so I am keeping a positive attitude. I tire easily some days. I am so tired other days I feel like doing nothing. I am still going to the gym when I feel like it. I am still planning on going across the great state of Tennessee on a bicycle in May 2017.
I am now taking our little girl dog, Molly, to the nursing homes one Sunday a month, and hope to start singing with a couple of my friends from church in the nursing homes soon.
But the thing that encourages me most is seeing and hearing from my family and friends that you have been keeping up with my progress. Please continue to pray for Tina and I as we navigate through this difficult time. “Believe in the LORD and HE will set you free!” I do and pray that you do too.
Love you all,
June 11, 2016
Hi everyone! I’m sorry it has been a while, but some great things have happened and we are looking for more great things in the future. The months of March, April And May have been trying. In February, if you remember, I was in Vanderbilt hospital for 5 days in ICU. The first 2 days I was actually fighting for my life! I was introduced to Mr. catheter, and had to wear a mini catheter even after I came out of the hospital for over 2 months. Then in the last part of April I had to start catheterizing myself 3 times a day. Man was that ever rough!
In May I got two real good pieces of news. One was that I have to catheterize myself just 1 time a month, for now. The second is just what GOD had already promised: THE CANCER IS IN REMISSION!! How great HE is! Praise GOD! It is a wonderful feeling to hear those words. Even though I still have days that I tire easily, I am cancer free……for now. I still have to go back to the doctor every 3 months for a review to make sure the cancer stays away.
Now down to business. I need your prayers and support again. The “help a Buddy fight cancer” foundation is back on track. If you don’t believe it, read the Columbia Daily Herald on 6/7/16. We are also planning the bike ride now for May 2017 (because of my many stays in the hospital in February and my having a catheter on in March and April, my doctors thought it very unwise to do the ride this year in May).
In the near future, we will open a bank account and a new web site so people can donate to the “help a Buddy fight cancer” foundation so we can all make a difference in fighting this dreadful disease. I just found out, a friend told me, one of his co-workers died from melanoma. She was only 40 something! It can strike anyone, at any age, of any race. If you need more information, email me or leave me a message on this site.
Again thanks for your prayers. Now help me help others fight this horrible disease!!
Your Friend Buddy
March 23, 2016
Hey everyone! I’ve had the best last 14 days of my life in 4 years! GOD is so good. Three weeks ago I was in Vanderbilt hospital in critical condition. Now since giving everything to GOD , we have the cancer on the run. Not because of me, but because of GOD and his son Jesus Christ. Praise be to GOD!! Miracles still do occur!
So he wants me to spread the news. I have spoken to two different churches about what has happened to me and I have sung to glorify HIM. I want to do the same at your church. If you would like to hear my testimony, please email me your pastor’s phone number, or email address and I will meet with him to tell and show him w I . For free! That is what he wants me to do.
We will have a PET scan done in 3 to 6 weeks from April 1st to see if the cancer has completely left my body. I believe it has because I have asked the GREAT HEALER to destroy it. And I believe HE has. Join me in this realization and see what GOD can do!
Thanks as always for your prayers, and give thanks to GOD every day for what you have.
March 5, 2016
Sorry I have not kept up the site lately. things have really been going too fast. It just feels good to relax on Saturday March 5th. I have been in the hospital two times since the start of February.
On February 10th Tina came home to find me sweating with a 102.4 temperature. She immediately took me to Maury Regional because if I have a fever over 102, I am supposed to go to the hospital emergency room. The doctors determined I had a urinary tract infection and needed anti-bionics and steroids. I stayed in Maury Regional for 4 days and was released on February 13th. My fever was gone and I felt somewhat better. On February 14th I woke up not feeling well and we stayed home from church. As the day wore on, I got feeling worse. On the 15th I stayed in the bed and on the couch. I had hot flashes (yes men, we do get them) and cold flashes. But I did not run a fever. On the 16th I felt better and ventured out of the house that morning. But by that afternoon, I started feeling worse. Tina came home for lunch, and found me sweating again, this time with a 102.8 fever. She immediately loaded me up and took me to Vanderbilt.
The Vanderbilt hospital emergency staff was great. They took my blood and found my liver and kidney count was near critical and flew into action. I was hooked up to IV’s and transferred to the intensive care unit in the ER. Later that morning a doctor came in and told me I had a very, very bad urinary tract infection and had to put in a catheter. Now men, you know that anything down there they start fooling with is going to hurt. I was really worried, until two minutes later felt a small tug and he said it was in. I was so relieved! It hurt, but really not that bad. I do not remember much after that, until I was transferred to the intensive care unit on the 11th floor in the Oncology Dept.
I stayed in Vanderbilt until the 19th when they said I was going to be discharged. My liver and kidney count had come way down (not back to normal, but close) and I had not had a fever in over 48 hours. They said my urinary tract infection was gone and there was no reason why I should be kept any longer. I had to go home with a catheter and what they call a mini- Rollie Catheter. That thing is great! You would not know I had it on, unless you lifted my pants leg. I can actually go places.
I have had the best last 8 days since 4 years ago and actually sleeping better and longer at night (thanks partially to the catheter).
But I owe everything to GOD because I believed HE would heal me. And a lot to my wonderful wife Tina, who stayed by my side, until I made her leave on the 18th. Then she surprised me by coming back on the 19th with her dad to see me.
Thanks for your continued prayers and support. Without our church family and good friends, it would be a much harder for us to face the coming months and years. You make it sooooo much better.
All my love,
And remember……GOD is in control!!
January 5, 2016
December 31, 2015
It is December 31st and I”m celebrating New Years eve here at Vanderbilt. I”‘ll be my “cocktail” costs more than yours. Mine will cost today only around $50,000 and will last 4 1/2!! How about that?
But GOD is so good to me. I have a lot of nurses to take care of me as you can see. I am true my blessed. After staying at Vanderbilt starting at 11 am, we arrived home at 8:30 pm. My prayer for all of my followers, is that GOD richly blesses you and your family in 2016! It will be a better year for us all! Much love,
December 18, 2015
Hi everyone. I had my second infusion on Dec. 18th. I am now having rash problems all over my body, I have scratched these areas until they bleed. Dr. Johnson has given me some medication to help with that.
I am now also not sleeping well. I guess with the effects of the drugs, the mental anguish, the physical problems, and the financial problems that come with this disease, it is weighing on me. With GOD’s help, I will keep going.
I am sorry for anything I might have said or done to offend anyone. This cancer has a way of distancing people from you. It is hard at times…….harder at others. Unless you have been through it, you really can’t understand. That is why I have to stay positive.
I will be going back to Vanderbilt on December 31 for my third infusion. How about that! Celebrating New Years Eve in a chair for 4 1/2 hours. I will get some pictures to share with you then.
I want to wish everyone, A very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!
November 22, 2015
I met with my oncologist at Vanderbilt Hospital the first of November and we talked about 5 options to fight the cancer that is now going up my right leg and spreading. I picked the most dangerous, but the most promising treatment with the best results.
On November 19th, I started an infusion therapy at Vanderbilt with two experimental drugs. These two drugs I will have to take every three weeks, a total of four different times ( a 12 week treatment), then 1 drug every 2 weeks after that for 2 years. These drugs have a 60% chance of effectiveness against melanoma. It also has the more dangerous side effects, but it is something that GOD has led me to do.
The first infusion has been a new experience for me. I had to sit in a chair for over 4 hours, while these drugs were pumped into me through an iv. If you know me, you know how hard that was for me to do. As of November 22, I have no real bad side effects, but i am itching a lot and my right foot hurts. The doctors have told me that is normal.
The pharmacist that works with my doctor came in and explained the procedure I would be going through. She also told me that by the time two years are up, just my medicine alone would be over $1,000,000. Wow that was a shocker!
Now you know why we have this web site. There are no programs to help the middle class people like me, so with the money raised we will be able to help others with their daily bills to ease the pressure of the financial part of this killing disease. We are also going to start a go fund me site pretty soon to help us with our bills.
Please keep me and my family in your prayers. Also drop me a line of encouragement sometime. I have learned that that is so important for people like me to stay positive.
Thank you for visiting, and if you want a t-shirt, just e-mail me.